failure is inevitable sometimes and i have seen it in many shapes and forms. it is easy to be negative when you feel as though nothing good is happening in your life. i remember a time when my life was completely shut off and for months i wouldn’t even interact with people.
it takes great strength to build yourself out of a hole, determination to live the life you want to live and the guts to do what is best for your sanity. there are some who lack the respect of another human being, they see nothing ventured, nothing gained and will find whatever means to keep you underground or keep you just a level they can commit to because it benefits their way of life.
when a person is low enough, they see no light, they see no courage, they see nothing.
encouragement becomes a form of conversation that only enables more frustration because the lowest of lowest affects our way of thinking. i believe even if someone is given merits for their successes, it does not prove they are better than anyone else but it gives them the courage to move on to a better place.
unfortunately, there will always be people who lack that respect for another and will always have a mission of destruction. the question is are you willing to let them conquer your very sanity? are you willing to allow them to defeat what you have worked so hard for?
if only we could all find peace within ourselves, then maybe the world would be a better place.