why people give up on relationships

it no longer serves a purpose | you are fighting a losing battle | your goals are different

there are many reasons why relationships fail but when is it that attracted us to this unhealthy relationship in the first place? is it because one or the other person was pretending to be something they really are not or we so consumed by the idea of actually having someone who would at least pay attention, that … want to know the rest?

the truth will set you free

do you have a secret that is eating you up inside and if revealed may break a relationship?

i landed on my favourite epic inspiration Oprah life class lessons, watching the lesson below it made me very aware of something i have been keeping a secret. in any relationship we must at all cost be honest not only with ourselves but with our partner and the reality is we don’t always tell each other … want to know the rest?

.as long as it benefits us

in fairy tales, the girl always gets the man of her dreams. not matter which movie you watch, in the end, she gets it all.


women have to fight for everything they want! men ask:

“what do you want?” – it is as if the impossible seems so complicated to men. basically if you feed him, let him sleep in and give him sex, he is happy. the rest is just “yes dear.”

let … want to know the rest?

.flirting & men

the concept of flirting has become so foreign to men it has to be said those who still do, kudos to them! the ones who don’t, shame on you.

what i really like is that most of the time flirting can be so fun and innocent it makes you feel very special; to at least know that someone is even remotely noticing you is a plus when you are close to 50. but it is … want to know the rest?


i believe people are never true to their nature. they hide behind whatever bullshit attitude they have to make up for any weaknesses they may have and never consider others.

one thing i know for sure, as we learn to accept others for who they are, we can certainly brush off any irritating feelings we may have. on the odd occasion that someone really turns your crank, you feel shut down and frustrated that you … want to know the rest?