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.amend your closet space

yesterday i spoke of compartmentalization, the art of putting everything in its own place and we often can’t do this. this is why most of the time our lives become unmanageable. we stress about everything and it just seems all that happens, will in fact happen all at once.

we then find ways to distract ourselves from the true reality of our lives but never accomplish anything. i think prioritizing comes into play as have to look at the value of every issue that we face and see what is most important. i write about all this well being and feeling better ourselves every day when in fact i am the biggest procrastinator about the subject. i try and fix everyone else and never really read the epic

.distraction is a good cure

i feel that if we are stressed about life, sometimes if you do things, keep busy or think about something else, it helps to calm yourself. focusing on other items on the agenda can alleviate some of the dilemmas you may be facing in life. this is especially true when making big decisions that are absolutely foreign to your normal routine.

the reality is when you know you must make these decisions it all boils down to commitment. i can’t stress enough how committed i have always been to life goals and other people but sometimes it was necessary to keep me grounded. what i have learned to do is find ways to distract myself when i am really having a difficult time by pondering read the epic

attitude and behavior

epic is having the most stressful time, it seems to me that politeness and compassion have thrown out into the wind and people have become so ungrateful. i do realize at this time of year, people tend to get a little more stressed and excited all in the same sentence but it is also a time of giving.

i am sick to my stomach thinking how many people in my hours of the day that do not appreciate things. a smile, assistance of any sort, can easily go a long way. on another foot so can anger, bad manors and sadness.

working with the public is the one of the most challenging jobs in the world, other than child bearing, and i can tell you read the epic

teaching unconditional love

unconditional meaning acceptance of one human to another in all aspects of their existence.

whether we do right or wrong, unconditional love means being able to accept that other person. we are creatures of our own deceptions and even when we believe that logic is the best course of action towards a loved one, sometimes that logic is shit. in reality all kinds of people affect our daily living, we meet them, we greet them, we decide whether we want them in our lives and how we choose to accept them is also a choice.

one of the biggest and most important thing in my life is love. i have been learning and living it, teaching myself how to unconditionally accept those around me and read the epic

.what do you fear

fear is one of the most common symptoms of mental illness, fear of failure, fear of reality, fear of not being good enough, the list goes on. those who suffer from lack of confidence become those who use and abuse substances. i think it is because when you are high or drunk, you become someone else, fearing nothing and caring about nothing. that in itself is the big reason most who are abusers, never really know how to become connected with the real world.

positive reinforcement no longer works because most of the time, even if someone tells you, ‘you are doing great’, you lack the ability to believe that. knowing is growing and when you can truly believe in yourself, you can beat anything. read the epic

without a doubt

spending time alone really makes you think about life and what suits your needs and wants. when you think that someone else wants the same things and know deep down it isn’t, you question your ability to make the right decisions.

i have made quite a few changes again lately but i know it wasn’t entirely for me. the problem lies when those decisions affect your happiness or lack of and you know no matter how you try and fix things, it will always favour one person more than yourself.

lets start with children…

i love mine very much but there comes a time when you have to cut the cord and let them make their life. i had made a promise to myself that read the epic

.when things are just not right

what i have noticed this week are my struggles with life and people. the ultimate question this week is whether it is important or not but i find myself struggling with the fact that no matter how hard i try to make things smooth, i am still not satisfied with anything.

yesterday, i got a horrible phone call from my son and my thoughts were i wanted to go and rescue him from this massive disaster he was facing. my struggle was that my hands were tied and there was absolutely nothing i could do. i can’t really explain the situation however, i can tell you as a mother it is one of the most difficult things when you know things are out of your read the epic