when the decisions are made


often, people talk about choices | i hate that word, i really do because i have always believed that no matter what choice made something always comes along and alters it.

we live according to what we believe to be satisfactory to our needs. i am sure at one time or another we lived for the purpose of guiding others | children | shaping them into what we want and hope they will grow into strong adults. read the epic

why people give up on relationships


it no longer serves a purpose | you are fighting a losing battle | your goals are different

there are many reasons why relationships fail but when is it that attracted us to this unhealthy relationship in the first place? is it because one or the other person was pretending to be something they really are not or we so consumed by the idea of actually having someone who would at least pay attention, that we blinded ourselves into this crazy fantasy? read the epic

Men and Hormones


ever notice that when we talk about sex, most people get uncomfortable? my experiences tell me that most of the time, men really enjoy sex and women use it as a weapon to fulfil their emotional needs. however, when we don’t get what we want out of a man, if we don’t put out, we become this other creature of destruction. read the epic

how can we accept the things we cannot change


looking back, i know i like change. i like changing my environment, i have changed jobs many times, even when i like something i try to find a way to make it more interesting. they say variety is the spice of life but one thing i never did like changing were my relationships.

i grew up hoping i would be with the love of my life for over 25 years and it never happened. read the epic

honesty is better than disappointing lies


i have been thinking about games as i called them, people play. man or woman, i see it all the time. one plays the game of cat and mouse to get something they want. they figure they are giving a small piece of themselves for the other person and should be enough.

why can’t people say exactly what they want and accept whatever consequences will follow? read the epic

.life consequences


karma, something i believe in to the very core. i also believe that when you do something wrong, it will come back and bite you right in the ass without hesitation. so if for one moment you are considering any bad thoughts, remember, there are consequences.

one the other hand, what happens when you believe that you are doing great things and nothing comes back in return? read the epic

stop wanting the impossible


i watched an inspirational movie this afternoon and it made me think of my own life. i have been looking for this great idea that would bring readers to my blog, that hope that people would be so inspired that some popular paper or magazine would like me enough to want to write for them.

that’s just it…why is it we are always looking for more? read the epic

life changes in a blink of an eye


if had to look back, this time last year, how much of your life has changed? are things still familiar? are they life altering, so much that you no longer feel grounded? are you spinning inside and asking yourself how did you survive all that has happened?

this is where i am today.

i do not sleep well and sometimes my dreams are so vivid that i ask myself who is that person in my dreams. read the epic