when you can’t say | i love you



my favourite word. since i was little i have searched high and low for ways to love. of course growing up i really knew nothing about it until one day i realized how unconditional love is the key ingredient to any relationship. although someone may love you in their own epic way, it doesn’t mean they love you with their whole heart and acceptance of who you are and what you represent. read the epic

the truth will set you free


do you have a secret that is eating you up inside and if revealed may break a relationship?

i landed on my favourite epic inspiration Oprah life class lessons, watching the lesson below it made me very aware of something i have been keeping a secret. in any relationship we must at all cost be honest not only with ourselves but with our partner and the reality is we don’t always tell each other everything i believe for fear it might hurt the other person. read the epic

how to get epic results


recent days have shown me the only way to get something is to speak up. it is never easy to communicate our feelings and thoughts when you feel as though no one will understand. sometimes it is because we fear the worse or maybe we fear the disappointment. it is a two way street when it comes to relationships and if both parties are willing to invest the time in actually sitting down and telling each other these needs and wants, it is amazing how the final result can shed so many previous worries. read the epic

the concept of consideration


i have come to realize that having a great relationship is not only impossible but it seems as though the fight is always one sided.

i can speak for many women i know, we always feel as though men | in general | are selfish and have no consideration for our feelings and what is worse, when you have a dispute or you leave your partner with no words or produce this massive silence between the two of you, women always look like the ones who are impossible to please. read the epic

.when things are just not right


what i have noticed this week are my struggles with life and people. the ultimate question this week is whether it is important or not but i find myself struggling with the fact that no matter how hard i try to make things smooth, i am still not satisfied with anything.

yesterday, i got a horrible phone call from my son and my thoughts were i wanted to go and rescue him from this massive disaster he was facing. read the epic

when the decisions are made


often, people talk about choices | i hate that word, i really do because i have always believed that no matter what choice made something always comes along and alters it.

we live according to what we believe to be satisfactory to our needs. i am sure at one time or another we lived for the purpose of guiding others | children | shaping them into what we want and hope they will grow into strong adults. read the epic

why people give up on relationships


it no longer serves a purpose | you are fighting a losing battle | your goals are different

there are many reasons why relationships fail but when is it that attracted us to this unhealthy relationship in the first place? is it because one or the other person was pretending to be something they really are not or we so consumed by the idea of actually having someone who would at least pay attention, that we blinded ourselves into this crazy fantasy? read the epic

Men and Hormones


ever notice that when we talk about sex, most people get uncomfortable? my experiences tell me that most of the time, men really enjoy sex and women use it as a weapon to fulfil their emotional needs. however, when we don’t get what we want out of a man, if we don’t put out, we become this other creature of destruction. read the epic