believe it or not, time is a valuable tool for any situation. love, life, people, they are all there for a reason. things that happen are meant to be and regardless of what you have known all your life, that you can change the course of events, make choices, make decisions, nothing is as it seems.…

what happens when you finally feel empty?

the reason we set out on a journey of self discovery is to decide whether the ‘junk’ we carry around is valuable. the only way to really be at peace with ourselves is to eliminate the ‘stuff’ that really doesn’t matter in order to see clear for our new way of living.…

a comment was made that everyone should have someone to go too when in need of venting or understanding. i explained to this person, i have never really gotten close to anyone for the simple reason, TRUST!

there comes a time when no matter who or where, people eventually burn you and that is why i do not have very close friends.…

we all know love can come in many shapes and form, i spoke of it yesterday and when someone makes you feel like shit, you ask yourself the obvious question: “what did i do”

i can tell you this from experience that being hurt by love is one of the hardest things you will ever have to endure.…

i have been thinking about games as i called them, people play. man or woman, i see it all the time. one plays the game of cat and mouse to get something they want. they figure they are giving a small piece of themselves for the other person and should be enough.…

i woke up with thoughts of this: where is a good man when you need him on a day like today? i am off, working late tonight and my tree and garbage needs to be at the road by 7am.

here’s what i am getting at…

men are always complaining that we women have to much drama, that we need to dump our garbage, well where the hell are this morning?…

what do we really know about love? how can we define it’s wonder?

people in general have many definitions for this feeling, this idea, this thought and in my experience, there many types of love. the personal story of love for me started in 2006, when i thought i had found my true love.…

while i have been pre-existing in the blog world, trying to come up with some great and creative ideas, i started thinking about how people are present in the moment. we often see and look at individuals and realize for that split second, they are off in another world not being here in what they are doing.…

this week i am on vacation from my real job, taking a rest to finish up some work around the house and a loose ended project.  it reminds of how important it is to take some much needed time to do the things i like and step away from things that stress me out.…