Flush and Don’t look back

this is truly funny as i have been working on this for quite some time now and for the life of me, i think simple is boring but it has its’ perks. when you are not feeling well, i love to be lazy. something i had to learn quite some time ago because i felt as though i was wasting time just doing nothing.

the title today reflex a quote made by someone i know not | a comment from a person who is following the same course as me | and i believed it was important to share. 
his comment went like this: |

“there are no guarantees; the way I see it the more of your true self you put out there the more you stand to gain  in the best case scenario when it is reciprocated , and of course the more  you stand to lose if it goes pear. We just have to be brave enough to jump in and go for it cos for me there is nothing like it on this earth. It’s worth the risk! If you only put a  part of yourself out there, that’s all you’re gonna get back and having done that before, I reckon it  just ain’t worth it. If you shut down, the chances of you finding that magic you’re looking for are pretty slim.  I was once told(by a woman), if it doesn’t work out, acknowledge your part in it , feel the pain, learn the lesson and move on . “Flush and Don’t Look Back”  . In the mean time, you can refine your product. (Yours may not need it. Mine did) .And get clarity on what it is you’re looking for in a partner , your boundaries, deal breakers, values  etc. and put yourself out there when you’re ready to go again.I hope you find that magic, knowledge your part in it , feel the pain, learn the lesson and move on . “Flush and Don’t Look Back”  . In the mean time, you can refine your product. (Yours may not need it. Mine did) .And get clarity on what it is you’re looking for in a partner , your boundaries, deal breakers, values  etc. and put yourself out there when you’re ready to go again.I hope you find that magic.”

although everyone’s input is very valuable to me,  part of that “Flush and Don’t Look Back” | true to form | but sometimes we must look back in order to never “Rinse and Repeat”. i have put myself out there way to many times to know that being vulnerable means giving your whole self and heart. that my friends is a big mistake; you only get burned. my true nature in life i believe scares the living day lights out of people because i am so bold and honest and frankly no one | i have ever met | is up for the challenge.
the way i see things, if it’s meant for me to find that special someone | and i did make of list of things i want and don’t need | it will happen.
i believe life will take me where it has to go. i will not long search as i find it exhausting. the one thing i know for sure, the lessons i have learned give me great insight on seeing signs, warnings to what i know will not work in my life. for now, life is what it is, i do what i want, when i want, and with whom i want.