they say variety is the spice of life but then again to much change can shock your body and mind. i like changing things all the time especially my surroundings. i love the control of knowing i can do something | try something new and if it doesn’t work | try something else.
when it comes to love | now that’s a whole different story. i am so loyal to my partner when i am in love, i would move mountains if i could to make shit happen and work. i believe so hard in the love i have that i sometimes sacrifice my own happiness to make something work. i know in a healthy relationship we should never compromise our own happiness for the sake of others, but when it is small things, i believe sometimes you have to just suck it up and go with the flow.
i also believe that if another person loves you enough, they too should make compromises to make things work. it is only fair to see the light at the end of the tunnel if both people are in the same timeline | otherwise what is the point?
all i am saying is that change is very good when it is beneficial to both individuals in any relationship. being happy is sometimes a sacrifice we must make in order to live the life we want and truly believe in.
my favourite saying: ‘ i can have my cake and eat it too’