.what i have discovered

“taken from my book 13 Chaos

As much as I would like to delete certain memories, events and past regrets, I feel myself remembering things more and more these days.

Recognizing defects can be quite a relief but on the other hand, it can also damage your well being.  I was once told that I could love at a distance even though knowing that …

.how far can you go with the truth

people expect their friends, family, who ever to tell you the truth about everything. we all know they don’t but in the end we always figure it out. but how refreshing it would be if people would just be honest about all that is said?

honest about how they really feel, honest about any given situation and honest about themselves. people i believe would grow …

.taking a break from your life

i have spoken many times about simplifying your life and i am one to talk, yesterday i realized how chaotic my life has become. restless nights and wandering avenues of OMG! i need a break seriously.

it seems as though every time i close one page, another is just around the corner. maybe i should just consider the possibility that my life needs a revamping …

Do you really know

you’ve heard the saying ‘walk a mile in someone’s shoes’, well do you honestly think you can even remotely do that and still understand another person?

never.

the fact is even if you experience a similar situation as another, it is different for everyone. you can never understand another’s pain, joy, life because you are not them. what you may find unbearable someone else might …

.keeping it simple

part of personal growth is learning what makes you happy and what doesn’t work.

in the last year, i have learned many things about myself and this weekend, i had another experience that made me realize why i get disappointed all the time. in relationships, we expect things to go a certain way; wanting things, hoping your partner will do or say the right things …

.truth and trust

how can you be who you want to be if you can’t tell the truth or trust the one’s around you?

living in fear of judgement and constant restraints can be one of the most difficult ways of living. we often hide the real shadow of who we actually are because we are conditioned too. far too often, hiding the true nature can destroy our …

.taking a time out

as children, we all know parents put us in a time out as punishment for bad behavior. honestly, as an adult, we should this more for our own well being. it really wasn’t a bad behavior situation but it was really about giving the adult a period of relax and quiet.

the reality is most of us do not consider the possibility we all need …

.the journey of life

sometimes, life is unfair. it traps us into thinking we are epic and in the end we find out it was all a dream. most inspiring people have the ability to love themselves enough to never care what others do or say. how grand it would be if we could all think like this?

what others believe to be true is merely an image. what …