taking responsibility for your own personal life

i have noticed and determined, people do not take responsibility for their own actions. they say or do things and really never live up to it. as i sit here this morning, i see things in a different light and it has to be said, most people are creatures of disguise.

how can we live in a world so full of chaos and never truly …

why do people give up

failure is inevitable sometimes and i have seen it in many shapes and forms. it is easy to be negative when you feel as though nothing good is happening in your life. i remember a time when my life was completely shut off and for months i wouldn’t even interact with people.

it takes great strength to build yourself out of a hole, determination to …


in life, we all need something to believe in (sounds like a song) and sometimes we just need courage.

if we go through life never attempting anything, why are we here?

growing up, i never understood life and for what it’s worth, i also never had any goals. i pretended to be something i am not, shadowed behind people who thought what was best for …

Wanting something better

we all strive to be better, to be something we are not or is it just society that makes us want these ideas?

i can remember a time when simplicity or it seemed simple was all i had. one day i woke up and decided that life had to be better than what it is. today, i have more things than i ever imagined and …


there are times when decisions can be the hardest thing you live through because no matter how you map it out in your mind, shit always happens.

the one thing that keeps me focused when i have to make a decision is the reason behind it. i know in my mind and heart, i am doing something for my best interest. i never used to …

.it is what it is and it all happens for a reason

frustrating times are a part of life.

what we do with them becomes our very center. if we react to every little disturbance, we might as well lay down and never really live. a friend said when i told him i had to many boxes open:

‘it’s because you are not in the moment” – i never really looked it that way. i just thought …

.just a moment in time

life can reveal many things, people say whatever they want, how you perceive it becomes your epic reality.

we often commit to things we would not normally do and the reasons may be of good nature or not. then life happens, you decide that maybe what you thought was reason enough to take a stand really is just a moment in time.

so how do …

.things have to change

what is life if you don’t live your own life?

people can say what they want, give their opinions, tell you exactly what you don’t want to hear but in the end, this is your life and you can choose to take it or leave it!

we can not allow people to dictate how we live, how we think and especially how we act. our …