what do we really know about love; only what we have seen or have been taught. for those of us who have not seen real love, may never know or understand the meaning of unconditional love.

over the years, i have learned much about this “word” love and how it can either break you or make you the person ever.…

it no longer serves a purpose | you are fighting a losing battle | your goals are different

there are many reasons why relationships fail but when is it that attracted us to this unhealthy relationship in the first place? is it because one or the other person was pretending to be something they really are not or we so consumed by the idea of actually having someone who would at least pay attention, that we blinded ourselves into this crazy fantasy?…

this week i have been lacking in my writing only because life has taken much of my time. we all have to work for a living and once the day is done, i have no energy for anything. my brain hurts, my body tells me to slow down or lay down, which ever comes first.…

well here it is, the month i love most and it’s all about love

this world needs more of that and with my next trip almost here, i want to tell the world that even though i am extremely busy this month with business and work, i am always here to lend an ear.…

there is much talk about how relationships should work and how some never work. the concept of having a great relationship comes from being able to love unconditionally. i have stressed this for many years and i only wish people would see this in a positive way.…

i believe the most epic moments in life are the lessons we learn about ourselves.

this morning as i watched the Steve Harvey videos posted below, tears not only fell from my fact but in my heart. i know for a fact that i now know my childhood has had a big impact on my life today and how it was played out.…

there are many people who are ready to give advice, tell you the things ¬†you already know and some things you really don’t want to hear. but when it comes to listening, you have to ask yourself, do they really?

some even preach the whole idea of loving you with their whole heart, wanting a life time commitment and in the end they hide behind their own shadow of fear.…

i have had two great loves in my life, both have failed and left me very disappointed and burned by the fact they cannot factor me in their lives. not to mention they have issues with commitment, therefore i have asked myself time and time again, why i keep going back to this kind of unhealthy relationships?…

what i have noticed this week are my struggles with life and people. the ultimate question this week is whether it is important or not but i find myself struggling with the fact that no matter how hard i try to make things smooth, i am still not satisfied with anything.…