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Romantic gestures

sparkle. relationships. we see all the romantic movies with people in love and how light in all seems but what constitutes as romantic? we are all different types of people, men, women alike have different ideas as what should be done to swoop a woman’s attention. because men are logical and women are emotional, this…

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Why do we care

there are things in life that are very complicated, it seems to me life has become so chaotic, we have not time for serenity. we have schedule everything, to do lists, agendas, time management is one of the biggest life line. i have also come to realize who matters most in life and those people…

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Men and hormones

ever notice that when we talk about sex, most people get uncomfortable? my experiences tell me that most of the time, men really enjoy sex and women use it as a weapon to fulfil their emotional needs. however, when we don’t get what we want out of a man, if we don’t put out, we…

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.timing is everything

believe it or not, time is a valuable tool for any situation. love, life, people, they are all there for a reason. things that happen are meant to be and regardless of what you have known all your life, that you can change the course of events, make choices, make decisions, nothing is as it…

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.being susceptible to people

we all know love can come in many shapes and form, i spoke of it yesterday and when someone makes you feel like shit, you ask yourself the obvious question: “what did i do” i can tell you this from experience that being hurt by love is one of the hardest things you will ever…

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.what i am going to teach you

what do we really know about love? how can we define it’s wonder? people in general have many definitions for this feeling, this idea, this thought and in my experience, there many types of love. the personal story of love for me started in 2006, when i thought i had found my true love. for…

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.still haven’t found what i am looking for

men and women alike react differently to certain situations concerning love. whether good or bad, women are very emotional and tend to trash the men when shit doesn’t go our way. however, what i have noticed, by example of my family whom have great marriages, they use signals and communication in a way i never…

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.the difference between love and like

if you were to take a look at your current relationship, can you say you love that person you are with or are just in it for the sake of being with someone? i know to many people who are in relationships because they either don’t like being alone or are trying to cover up…

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ungrateful for life and love

being ungrateful is like rejection; it makes you realize how much of yourself you have given to people only to have them suck the life right out of you. what are you left with? nothing. the desire to bitch everyone out because you feel cheated out of all the happiness that could have been. now,…

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relationship illusions

when you are interested in someone, how do we not set ourselves up for a fall? expectations. do not expect any more than another can give and know the signals. it is the hardest thing to do backing off when you know another person really isn’t into you, especially if you have already created the…

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.how complicated are emotions

i am going to men bash this morning… men play games – they really do and maybe they don’t realize they do it but it’s a fact. i am surrounded by women who talk about their men all the time and these are the things i hear: he is selfish, he says things he doesn’t…

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.the circle of life and love

this week has been quite interesting but less than desirable. what i learned was your heart is the most important part of your body because with it comes feelings. it doesn’t matter how strong of a person you are or how you think your head can’t control your well-being, when your heart is broken, nothing…