february the month of love


well here it is, the month i love most and it’s all about love

this world needs more of that and with my next trip almost here, i want to tell the world that even though i am extremely busy this month with business and work, i am always here to lend an ear.

so what is the month of love? read the epic

what are we trying to say


there is much talk about how relationships should work and how some never work. the concept of having a great relationship comes from being able to love unconditionally. i have stressed this for many years and i only wish people would see this in a positive way.

everyone has their own views on love and i fully accept that. read the epic

practice what you preach


there are many people who are ready to give advice, tell you the things  you already know and some things you really don’t want to hear. but when it comes to listening, you have to ask yourself, do they really?

some even preach the whole idea of loving you with their whole heart, wanting a life time commitment and in the end they hide behind their own shadow of fear. read the epic

.when things are just not right


what i have noticed this week are my struggles with life and people. the ultimate question this week is whether it is important or not but i find myself struggling with the fact that no matter how hard i try to make things smooth, i am still not satisfied with anything.

yesterday, i got a horrible phone call from my son and my thoughts were i wanted to go and rescue him from this massive disaster he was facing. read the epic

why people give up on relationships


it no longer serves a purpose | you are fighting a losing battle | your goals are different

there are many reasons why relationships fail but when is it that attracted us to this unhealthy relationship in the first place? is it because one or the other person was pretending to be something they really are not or we so consumed by the idea of actually having someone who would at least pay attention, that we blinded ourselves into this crazy fantasy? read the epic

letting go of what no longer serves a purpose


i thought i knew everything about unconditional love and the power it holds. what i didn’t realize is that when you see signs that it no longer serves you | meaning is fulfilling your core | we must let it go.


although we fight to the end to keep something alive that isn’t | realistically | going to make our future, we know in the end it is only a mere reflection of what might be. read the epic

removing the junk


[W]hat happens when you finally feel empty?

[T]he reason we set out on a journey of self discovery is to decide whether the ‘junk’ we carry around is valuable. the only way to really be at peace with ourselves is to eliminate the ‘stuff’ that really doesn’t matter in order to see clear for our new way of living. read the epic

honesty is better than disappointing lies


i have been thinking about games as i called them, people play. man or woman, i see it all the time. one plays the game of cat and mouse to get something they want. they figure they are giving a small piece of themselves for the other person and should be enough.

why can’t people say exactly what they want and accept whatever consequences will follow? read the epic