.exaggerations of another

i have been thinking about being real lately and how often people pretend. they pretend to like you they pretend to care and others simply pretend to save their own bad behavior.sometimes we pretend in order to keep the peace or we pretend to hide the truth about our feelings.…

.what if

time. how much do we really have and how do we use it?

i am faced with a reality these days of time and all i have had, meeting many people, experiencing many things and living my life the way i believe it should be lived.…

it is what it is | acceptance

driving to ambition, living for hope, determination because we, believe in something

i believe most people are disillusioned by their own personal experiences, thinking that either they can make a difference in the world or be greater than they are. my thoughts and feelings are  they are hiding from the reality of life.…

the joys of travelling

as it would have it with my luck, weather conditions have altered my travels.

i am writing this morning from a beautiful hotel room, one hour from my hometown. my original flights had to be changed as there was a winter warning advisory in chicago which was my first stop on my way to texas.…

the new bucket list

i talk often about self love, self devotion and more so how to be epic and live in the moment. lately i am just the opposite, hiding behind my own bullshit, never letting anyone seeing the real me and more so never letting anyone know what is really ailing me.…

.rock and a hard place

defeat. solid, harsh, complicated.

realistic doesn’t even begin to describe recent feelings, emotions and events. when you think you have a plan and have it “nipped” in the butt – reality sets in or does your heart?

at a young age we are motivated to do better – at an older age, we settle for what is in the present.…