.do we really see ourselves

while i have been pre-existing in the blog world, trying to come up with some great and creative ideas, i started thinking about how people are present in the moment. we often see and look at individuals and realize for …

.the good life

this week i am on vacation from my real job, taking a rest to finish up some work around the house and a loose ended project.  it reminds of how important it is to take some much needed time to …

.life consequences

karma, something i believe in to the very core. i also believe that when you do something wrong, it will come back and bite you right in the ass without hesitation. so if for one moment you are considering any …

cutting the crap

i am tired, tired of the bullshit, the reasons why we get up every day and for what? to be disappointed and let down.

i am tired of people who claim to care and don’t. i am tired of the …

the value of time

today i have noticed way to many people waste time with their negativity and complaints. they never shut up about whatever it is that isn’t going right instead of showing gratitude for what is good in the world today.

people …

words of a stranger

words can either destroy you or make you better but only for the moment or a lifetime?

i have had quite the week with people and two in particular, one whom totally made me feel like a piece of shit …

.do we really know

when you doubt yourself, life, people, you activate a negative feeling but what is really lying under this emotion? did someone or something set you off course?

self deprivation is one of the worse causes of stress and it certainly …

determination for survival

this week i struggle with being nice, nice to people, nice to whom ever comes to mind and especially nice to myself. i think about the trip i just took and also realize that no matter well i can treat …

life changes in a blink of an eye

if had to look back, this time last year, how much of your life has changed? are things still familiar? are they life altering, so much that you no longer feel grounded? are you spinning inside and asking yourself how …

women are smarter

i heard this line the other day that ‘women are smarter’ when it comes to life, relationships and love. obviously, this person was delusional because if we were smarter, we would stop trying to fix things that evidently doesn’t need …