no vacancy

i got the best compliment the other day, a man said that i taught him so much about love… i laugh today because obviously i didn’t teach him anything because he is back doing the ‘same old shoe‘ …

.what do i know

nothing.

really, i am not kidding. i have been writing shit for years about relationships, life, love, past experiences and still i ask that simple question:  is it all worth it?

i used to thrive on knowledge, knowing is growing …

.the challenge of being real

some people have secrets, some have dirty little secrets and some have past lives they wish to bury deep.we all have things we wish to never discuss or reveal about ourselves because we fear the rejection or worse the judgement …

.the art of marriage

people who have been burned more than once, look at marriage as a plague. they vow to never take the plunge again and yet they fail to see the beauty in the constitution. what i see is that it is …

The strength of the heart

relationships of all kinds makes us realize how strong our hearts can be. we love, we like, we give our all and then in the end, we ask ourselves the ultimate question when the heart is broken:

why me? what …

.how far can you go with the truth

people expect their friends, family, who ever to tell you the truth about everything. we all know they don’t but in the end we always figure it out. but how refreshing it would be if people would just be honest …

.what are you waiting for

my thoughts this morning are people. different kinds of people, why they are different and how we can’t accept some of them. all over the world there are millions of people doing different things in different ways but all mean …

.in the end you know who loves you

it’s funny how when in the most important moments, it’s those who remember you that you keep near to your heart. you think and wonder why you even bothered to be in the presence of certain individuals because you knew …

Saying what you mean

Why do people argue over the smallest thing? Does it make them feel better, more powerful, or are they just frustrated over things that really mean something to them?

I have never been able to verbalize my feelings, my angry …

.the old shoe

a friend of mine said: ” we go back to the familiar, it is like an old shoe”.

relationship failure brings doubt, low self esteem, the uncontrollable urge to make things right and as we try and try again to …